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Reflections on the life of a 60 something midwesterner who is retiring north instead of south.
Monday, May 13, 2013
Saturday, May 11, 2013
Return of the Artist
I have fallen in love with watercolor. I dabble in art and have done so for most ofmy life. I don’t seem to be able tomotivate myself to sit down and do original works of art without having sometype of structure associated with it. Idon’t know why. Maybe it was because although I seemed to have some talent as a child it was never nurtured and artof any kind was always considered a hobby not a vocation. Or it could be that I never seemed to be able to sit in one spot long enough to really work on a piece of art. Or maybe, just maybe, no one ever took thetime to teach art to me.
I remember my first real drawing class about 10 years ago with a real art instructor. What an eyeopener. It was a skill that could be learned and, like doing math or anything else, with practice it came easier. I really created some beautiful things.
Then life got in the way. I began working full time, the classes that were available at the juniorcollege level were on the wrong day, and the Art league only had classes in things that did not necessarily interest me. Suddenly I was out of the habit again and I stopped picking up a pencil to draw, I put my chalk away and my paint brushes remained in their drawer. I did start knitting though but that is a whole other blog.
Then this winter I noticed a watercolor course offered at the Naperville Art League. I began to take the class a few weeks ago and the instructor is wonderful and I have learned to love watercolors. I am working on a floral right now and it’s so much fun that even if the final product isn’t art gallery quality, it will all be worth it. I am sure the whole class will be worth it for getting me interested again!
I remember my first real drawing class about 10 years ago with a real art instructor. What an eyeopener. It was a skill that could be learned and, like doing math or anything else, with practice it came easier. I really created some beautiful things.
Then life got in the way. I began working full time, the classes that were available at the juniorcollege level were on the wrong day, and the Art league only had classes in things that did not necessarily interest me. Suddenly I was out of the habit again and I stopped picking up a pencil to draw, I put my chalk away and my paint brushes remained in their drawer. I did start knitting though but that is a whole other blog.
Then this winter I noticed a watercolor course offered at the Naperville Art League. I began to take the class a few weeks ago and the instructor is wonderful and I have learned to love watercolors. I am working on a floral right now and it’s so much fun that even if the final product isn’t art gallery quality, it will all be worth it. I am sure the whole class will be worth it for getting me interested again!
Spring thoughts
Spring 2013, cold rainy...just like the winter was. I had have never been much of a spring person
while I was growing up. When asked what
my favorite season was, it was anything but spring. Spring was never a pretty
month in the city. The melted snow would
reveal all sorts of trash. And the odors
that emanated from the sewers and the ground itself did not appeal to me,
although I remember a friend telling me that it was the smell of the earth
waking up.
It’s odd how I have very few memories of spring from my
youth. Let’s see, there was the time a bird pooped on my new Easter bonnet just
before we were leaving for church. Wasn’t that special? I cried and cried. I remember getting excited about baseball
season starting, but none of the particulars.
I remember my Mom’s tulips and the first Robins of spring. That was big stuff when you’re a youngster. It was not spring until Mr. Robin redbreast
lighted within sight of our back door. I
always knew school was coming to a close, but I do not remember being particularly
sad or happy about that. That is until
high school.
I guess riding my bike was exciting after winter but most of
my bikes riding memories are from the long, hot, glorious summers. As I grew older there are memories of lying
out on asphalt in the sun in temps that were unimaginably low to get a start on
that deep dark tan we all sought.
Nothing remarkable seemed to happen in the spring of my youth. And if it did, I probably don’t want to
remember it, which at this time in my life is OK; I have come to terms with
spotty memory. I have friends who can’t
remember a thing from when they were young.
I am lucky. I remember quite a bit.
As I grew older, spring became more eventful. In high school
there was prom and college a lot of fun happened in the spring. But the most vivid memory I have is the night
I truly met my husband.
We had originally met when he and a group of friends began
buying drinks for one of my classmates from college and me at what was then the
Snuggery Pub in Edison Park. Janet and I
were celebrating yet another milestone in our nursing school career. I believe it was the pediatric final. We all began talking and over the next month
or so we ran each other at our local watering hole Tommy’s on Higgins. When the pub closed at 2 everyone would go to
this 4am bar down the street. Even when
friends split up, we all knew to meet at Teasers at 2 which became a commonly
used phrase for let’s all get together at teasers at 2am. Like “hey…. what are ya doin’ later? Teasers
at 2?”
My most memorable spring night then occurred. I had arrived
at Teasers at 2 am. Having lost track of
whoever else I was with, I began searching the crowd for a familiar face. I was about to leave when through the crowd
bops my future husband with a big grin on his face. And what an amazing smile it was and still
is. We danced and then decided to go to
Dapper’s, an all-night restaurant, (which no longer exists) for some
breakfast. We talked until 8am. A few weeks later I graduated from nursing
school, two years later we were married.
It was May when I met the love of my life and began a journey that would
continue to fulfill me to this day.
So spring has grown better over the years with memories of
my children’s successes, trips Gar and I have taken but as long as I live, the
snapshot I have in my mind of Gary’s smile coming through that smoke filled bar
will always be my favorite memory. After
almost 28 years our love just keeps growing.
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